Dream Destroyer

There is only one thing that could keep me from following my RV Adenture dream.

We had a huge hail storm today, so much piled up and froze the road I drive on to work that cars became immobilized, stuck and swerved recklessly very close to where I was riding as a passenger after work. It was somewhat treacherous and I was fortunate that nothing was damaged, either my car or body.

It had the appearance of snow but was actually pea size hail that melted together and behaved like snow.

I’ve never seen anything like this in Sacramento in my life, I’m not sure this has ever happened here. We get tiny bits of snow every 20 years but this afternoon was unprecedented proof of climate change.

Jealousy Cure

One Girls Journey to Freedom

It’s very difficult to deal with feelings of jealously and insecurity, in a relationship. And it’s no different when the players are polyamorus, because learning to keep jealousy down to a bare minimum roar is entirely attractive to the ongoing functionality of a poly dynamic. That is a couple, or three or more engaged in a poly lifestyle.

Polyamory is also known as non-monogamy, an often misunderstood and sometimes sexual identity that simply means “loving more than one”. This may or may not include sex, there are in fact, a-sexual people who are also polyamorous. They do not have sex, they LOVE.

To break it down:

Poly = many

Amorous = love

So often a polyamorous couple has multiple casual or committed lovers. In most cases everyone knows the score and they are caring, committed lovers who want more than one partner and inform one another when they have an opportunity to play or have sexual relations.

WE all have the right to sex, it is not immoral or inherently bad to have more than one partner. The immorality of yesteryear does not stand up to the light of scrutiny in today’s world and only people who are judgmental would deem to press their prejudicial morays onto individuals who choose love over hate. We’ve come too far toward enlightenment to go back to Victorian standards, and then cheat on our spouses behind another’s backs. Many must move past their own self-imposed judgments in order to live free to love who they wish.

So a wife decides she wants to take a lover because her husband has been withholding intimacy for years. Is she bad? Should she go without for the rest of her years? Does she suspect he is fulfilling his appetite elsewhere?

What does she choose?

How does she tell her husband, is he the type that doesn’t want to know?

What’s such a girl to do for sex?

She’ll have sex.

So she chooses a very sexy guitarist she happens to see at a club and Surprise! He’s into it. He a poly guy, whose “married” to the woman he’s loved for 2 decades, but his heart and body is open to LOVE.

SINCE she (the horny woman who hasn’t had sex in years) is already into Him, there’s no stopping them. She’s all about giving pleasure and she gives. A lot. She also receives the best fucking she’s ever had and she grows some feelings about the man. A lot of strong feelings.

Now she has an opportunity to practice curing jealousy in a poly triangle. There are dozens of web pages with info on curing jealousy in a poly dynamic.

She knows she is good enough, but she reminds herself regardless. Jealously is borne out of loneliness and insecurity so she makes sure she has plenty of activities and plenty of self esteem building interactions and activities. Jealousy can be like an unreachable itch so she talks about it, writes about it and remembers He wants Her too.

She continues to build up her own sense of self and treats herself with an abundance of self care.

This is her cure for jealousy in a poly relationship. She is thrilled to find a way thru jealousy to the love (and sex) she always wanted and she becomes very, very happy.

The Woman I Desire ☆☆☆☆☆☆☆ A true FAN page by travel blogirl Jillymaui… featuring a special song by Emile Dalkey of Mezcal Aces – catch them in Sacramento or on an upcoming tour.

Emile Dalkey, “Master of Rock” and more, hits it “HARD ASA ROCK” with back o’ the head licks and enthusiastic teeth gnashin’ and flossin’ techniques ala the great Hendrix with some of his many beloved guitars.

The lyrics to the “Woman I Desire”, are in his original hand, digitally captured here.

The video then follows.

This song is on FIRE! So is this great musical talent, Mr. Emile Dalkey.

Just listen to the clear, intentional tone and hot, sexy strum slashes.

What IS that called?

Mr. Dalkey, plays this song like he really means it, in my humble, yet well-honed opinion.

He screams about “a girl who owns her sexy fire that melts men’s ♡♡♡s with a wink of her eye. And she knows it.”

How many boyfriends does this kinky girl need?

Lots and lots and lots apparently.

I was lucky enough to hear Emile Dalkey guesting with Nanker Phelge after the last Halloween show, on October 30, 2017 “a seventeen band strong evening featuring a Dead Rock Stars” review at the venerable club Old Ironsides in Sacramento, California.

That was one memorable show, which featured many bands, the standout to me, without a doubt, was Emile, as he WOWed us all, when he played & sang a great Mike Bloomfield original, “I Got a Mind”.


Emile Dalkey, I Got a Mind

Dalkey is always looking for the next challenging project, and his stint with Mezcal Aces is proving superb.

Together his current band has hundreds of years of real world musical experience, Emile is approaching 35 on his own, in his hardrocking quest for excellence.

You should be booking Emile today for your venue.

Emile Dalkey has ARRIVED!

I became an all-in immediate fan, I am truly hooked. On December 30, 2017, when he sang his song, “For Jill” that pretty much sealed the deal in my mind.

Emile is more than passionate about his music, his guitars, his bandmates, friends and his entire life devoted to creative fulfillment. MUSIC is his one true, all-consuming driving force. Nothing else compares, he agreed he is truly “married to music.”

He also paints with vibrant watercolours and writes captivating original music, like this fully, hot song of desire.

Dalkey also enjoys covering many hit rock tunes too, and is always a crowd pleaser.

The Woman I Desire is about a very sexy, nearly ideal woman he encounters, and simply must possess, he does not judge her or shame her for her ability to attract as many lovers as she desires. She is a polyamorous person with a sex drive that remains, utterly undiminished.

It was a pleasure to talk to Dalkey last January 10, 2018 when I was between vacations to Cabo, Mazatlan and Hawaii all about his music. Then on February 3, 2018, I closely examined, his beautiful guitar, as he provided personal insight to the workings of his ax and describes exactly why 3 pick ups are clearly necessary on his fabulous renderer of the hottest tuneage.

Dalkey Links :

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Tribute to Mike Bloomfield, I Got a Mind

Reverbnation Page

Twitter Feed

Tumblr: with Brangs’ audio

Fandalism Page

Check out some of my newest photos, from our recent February meeting.

When not nekked for a private concert, you can find him fronting his latest band Mezcal Aces, or subbing for another rad playa in a well-wired band.

(NO boys & girls!! that is just his LEG there below the Strat and besides he’s married to rocking- photographer Tara).

Emile Dalkey is a classically trained musician, playing many genres and seems most at home fronting a hard- rock bluesy vibe, that just screams its’ riffs and sweet, super hot licks, ala ~ en fuego, ala ON Fire!

Included in this hero-worship fan blog are more musical renditions, links, other snips and bits …photos and videos exclusively by @jillymaui from a recent billing at Fox n Goose, Sacramento, long-time musical venue.


This is actually a limited post to feature my private, blooming friendship with a very, very special man.

All photos, creative editing, content and words by @jillymaui. Tremendous gratitude to the gifted artist.


We found matching phone charms, I’m such a sucker for a long haired lead guitarist, ummm, you have no idea.

Emile Dalkey is that rare breed of sexy lead guitarist and vocalist, who connects with his fans and charms his way into their hearts. Bravo!

Is this reviewer Dalkey biased?

Yea? Ha! no effing doubt, none, nada . Zero.


From “The Woman I Desire”

“Hey Mami yo la tengo, Corazon en fuego”.

Translation approximate:

She has a heart on fire!

Later I wrote an inspired haiku….

Like I said:





The lyrics again:

“The Woman I Desire” written by Emile Dalkey, singer-songwriter, lead guitarist.

Hot shit. Yes. All that. ♡

Can you spell

H-O-T ?

In person… he is on fire!!!

And now for more hotness…


This intense pic is the one that melts my ♡.

Everytime… and I only took this pic a few days ago.

Next booking:

Feb 17. Fox n Goose

That show I brought two girlfriends with and we had such FUN, they loved meeting the band and we rocked all night long.

Our next time will be March 3, a private engagement. Just us.

Come hang out with the Cool Kids!

Alright, actually the nerds and other music afficianados, for real.

Just treat yourself to something sweet and at the same time, support all hard working and playing local musicians, male and female, some of whom have the chops to play on any stage, anywhere in the World.

Such as Emile Dalkey.


Post-script: I’ve been on vacation, total of 3 trips since December, I plan to get up to date on that soon, with 500 photos. Just kidding. No really. Christmas was Tahoe, then cruised to Mexican Riviera on HAL for 7 nights and the last 2 weeks in Hawaii, 90% of it was spectacular.

Blog on.